Signs if Your Wife Cheating on You

Cheating Wife Signs

The signs exhibited by a cheating wife are basically the same as that of a cheating husband except of course in the way they are executed because of the difference in gender. Infidelity is no longer confined to men as we are wont to believe. With the increasing economic and personal opportunities presented to women, independence even among married women is quite common. Along with this marked increase in independence comes the higher percentage of cheating wives. Women are emotional beings and are said to turn to cheating usually because of a perceived want in the marriage such as attention or appreciation rather than a compelling need for sexual gratification. When this need or want is fulfilled in another man, a cheating wife can do everything in her power to keep the relationship. Women find it more difficult to let go of an affair because of the emotional commitment that typically develops.

Many women indulge in emotional infidelity which is similar to physical infidelity in terms of violating the trust between married spouses except for the absence of sexual relations. This is considered painful as well because of the time and attention given to another which should have been rightfully given to finding solutions for existing problems in the marriage. Marital conflict is also quite personal and it would hurt a spouse to know that it is being confided to another person. This kind of relationship cultivates misplaced empathy and support which could dangerously lead to a physical affair.

Like men, women also manifest changes that could provide signs of cheating. A doubting husband can also summon his gut feel to guide him in his actions. If he sees and feels that something about his wife is out of character, then it is worth investigating further. It doesn’t matter if it is a minor detail. Men have to remember that women pay more attention to details and are therefore more adept in covering the smallest loopholes in their stories. The guiding principle to remember is to determine if the reason for suspicion does not conform to the natural inclination of the wife even if it is normally seen in other women.

A nagging and clinging wife is every husband’s nightmare but finding her suddenly being acceptable of the husband’s overtimes and business trips which gives her much time to herself is highly suspect. This might just mean that there is another man occupying her attention and time. Spending more time with girlfriends is a typical alibi employed by a cheating wife to explain her extended absence from home. A cheating wife quickly acts on the defensive when asked simple questions like where she was or who she was with.

A woman who goes to great extents to improve her appearance may have found a new reason to be attractive for. When a trip to a nearby store necessitates excessive dressing-up or physical preparation, her interest may not be on any merchandise but on a man she expects to meet on her way there. The trip becomes highly suspicious when the wife comes home with nothing bought after hours of being gone from the house.

A cheating wife acts very secretive and protective of her privacy. She never leaves her cell phone even while going to the bathroom in the pretext of waiting for an important business call. She talks in hushed tones while on the phone and installs new passwords in her computer to deny access to the spouse. She will also try to erase tracks of communication like caller IDs, emails, and chats.

The level of intimacy between spouses can either suffer or go to great heights in terms of innovation. This can mean that a cheating wife prefers to have sexual relations only with her lover or she is compensating by being more sexually active while introducing novel techniques learned from the lover. Anything extremely uncharacteristic of a person based on her regular standards should be cause for further investigation.

Women rarely cheat with sex as the primary reason. Some want to get back on a cheating husband by inflicting the same pain while proving that they remain desirable to other men. Most cheating wives do so because of the feeling of neglect. A few go for it for the simple thrill of an illicit affair.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes:

<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <s> <strike> <strong>